Happy 6 Month Birthday to my blog! What better way for me to celebrate but get a bit nostalgic over life since the start of 2015. With almost 4000 readers now I need to get back into the blogging game after my quiet few weeks!
2015 has been a crazy whirlwind and even now just turned 24 I still find myself learning new things about myself and general life.
– I found my love for Sushi after a random visit to Yo Sushi! in January and now I don’t think life will ever be the same again, it’s almost close to an addiction now! Probably the reason i’ve put weight on and spent more money on eating out than ever in my life.
– I can easily live without alcohol. So now it’s been over 18 months since I last drank alcohol and I really don’t miss the stuff at all, I’ve learnt to rise above the people who will comment on the fact I don’t drink or think it’s weird. It’s not weird, i’m 24 it’s not that i’ve never drunk and been out to clubs and done stupid things because oh my days i’ve been there and i’ve done that, I just find now i’ve stopped drinking I really don’t miss it and if anything I feel better for it. (as does my bank account)
– Friends from your past don’t forget you, i’ve got two of the most amazing friends who’ve travelled the world, they left before I started uni and It wasn’t until the start of this year that we were reunited, since then i’ve tried to catch up with them as and when I can when I go home. The one thing i’ve learnt is time and distance means nothing at all when it comes to true friendships, I love these girls, especially Vicki my best friend whose been living in Cambodia almost a year now.
– It’s perfectly okay to prioritise your job and career over less important plans, working hard is my passion, In the last six months i’ve constantly pushed myself to achieve more than I ever have. Sometimes this means missing out on other things like social occasions etc, this is okay as long as you still make time for you and whatever you enjoy doing in your down time.
– Life’s short (ironic as it sounds it’s true). Treasure the people around you they wont be here forever, don’t waste too much time on regrets or things that make you unhappy, move on and realise how blessed you are to have the people you do. This also goes for grudges don’t fall out with people you love for petty reasons, tell them you love them as much as you can and never take anyone in your life for granted.
– Being 24 doesn’t mean i’m old, i’m as old as I feel and yeah some days I do feel old when I round younger people but who cares, I’m happy where I am and I’m doing what I want to do!
– Going to bed before midnight isn’t actually that sad, it can infact help my mood for the next day, an extra hour of sleep can be a blessing. I also learnt the older you get the less easier it is to lie in.
– Reading is such a great way to pass time, stuff all this procrastination rubbish, reading is a perfectly good way to spend your time. I’ve found myself finishing books in 24 hours lately, I think for me it’s a great way to switch off from the world, enjoy my downtime and really pass the time that I was using last month stressing over uni work with in a much more enjoyable way.
– I have far too much stuff (especially clothes and shoes). Okay so most girls will probably agree that you can’t ever have too many clothes but now i’m trying to organise my life into boxes ready for moving into my flat I am panicking that I really wont have enough room for it all, let alone room for my books. Queue the whole dilemma of what to get rid of and what I will cling on too no matter what. Nightmare!
– I’m grateful that I grew up when I did, even things like relationships now with younger teens seem so revolved around social media. I’m so lucky to have a mature relationship where we actually speak to each other, enjoy each others company and don’t have to listen to gossip and report our lives to the world. Sorry but privacy is sooo much better.
– Family are everything! There’s been a few things this year that has proved exactly who is there for our family and how close I am to certain members no matter how far apart we are. Unfortunately not all see family the same as you might.
– I’m really not as fit as I used to be. I’m stuck in that whole ‘I really want to lose weight and get fit’ mood and ‘I can’t be bothered I’m happy and I’m too busy’ mood. lets be honest exercise doesn’t get any more fun as you get older in fact I find it a reminder i’m not as youthful that I used to be and maybe it’s time to actually get off my bum… or not. I might just read a book.
– Talking to professionals about their careers and how they got into what they do is actually really interesting! Networking is such a vital element within my life especially at the moment with where I am and where I want to go so there’s no harm in politely having conversations with people you never know where it could lead you.
– Money is a huge issue as you get older. Okay this is probably an obvious one but I wish I could stress more to people that growing up spending money on anything and everything isn’t worth it when it comes to your future and wanting to move out, go on holidays yourself and generally build a life for yourself.
– The moment you love what you do life gets a whole lot better! I love my job, I love my studies and I love my lifestyle right now. Okay so I may be unhappy with my appearance, but there’s not much new there. Besides that I think i’ve come so far in these past 6 months because i’m actually the happiest i’ve been in forever! & I never thought i’d be able to say I enjoy nearly everything in my life as much as I do now. So thank you to everyone whose got me through 2015 so far!