So after posting a timehop photo earlier today about how I saw myself looking very skinny two years ago and I had a pang of sadness wishing I still looked like I did, then I was reminded by many friends and family that I wasn’t happy then, not even close and deep down I really wouldn’t want to go back there. not ever.
I NEVER EVER thought I would say that, and Today has given me a huge realisation that I no longer live with Anorexia, I no longer question what food I can and can’t eat, I just eat what I want when I want. & I don’t spend my days in bed because I simply can’t face the world. I don’t have to worry about the scales, or the calories or even the portion size. I no longer consider how it would be easier to just throw up the food i’d eaten to make me feel skinny, I no longer measure my waist or feel my hair falling out on a daily basis!
& I no longer feel alone!
This might not mean much to some people but THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for those who wrote those kind words to me today about how I wasn’t happy then and how different my life is now and i genuinely would not change it for the world! Thank you to those who’ve never given up on me and thank you to those who did walk away, I did it without you in the end anyway! There’s nothing to be ashamed of if you have a mental illness but christ I wouldn’t have dreamt of speaking about the dreaded illness I was fighting, I was embarrassed, in denial and ashamed to not being able to fight the mental darkness I felt trapped in.
BUT here I am four years later and I cannot even express how amazing I feel writing this, I thought I would live with those thoughts for the rest of my life, and at times I didn’t even want to live anymore because it was hell. Now I will never ever look back, I’ve lost two incredibly important people from my life this year which eventually pulled me through into the clearest state of mind I have ever known. (Thank you angels <3) I started to take note of the beauty that is in this world and how important it is to cherish everything wonderful big and small that you have in your life.
If you’re fighting through anything right now don’t give up, I know it’s so easy to fall down but you’ll get back up because when you’ve been rock bottom you can only climb to higher places from there.
I may not be a size 6 anymore but I wouldn’t change my current size to be unhappy in a world of hell ever again, I love life without Anorexia and Bulimia and I just want to spread the word that every body is beautiful no one has the right to judge you or make you feel unattractive.
I LOVE YOU ALL